stop thinking !!!

Start creating a future and stop thinking about the past. It's already gone!

Stop feeling alone, start laughing.
Stop dreaming, start believing.
Stop fighting, start loving.
Stop thinking, start acting.

“Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”

“Take time to deliberate; but when the time for action arrives, stop thinking and go in.”
~ Napoleon Bonaparte

“Thinking is easy, acting is difficult, and to put one's thoughts into action is the most difficult thing in the world.”
~Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

please forgive me...

I know i'm not a perfect friend,
You're broken heart, i've tried to mend.
Instead i made you hurt and cry,
Maybe i should say goodbye.
Would it be better for me to go?,
I asked you, and you said "No".
Why say no when i hurt you so bad,
But believe me,
you're not the only one that's sad.
I made my best friend hurt like mad,
If i left would you be glad?.
Deep in my heart,
I'll always know,
I'll love you always,
Even if i go!
- Chrissie

I have learned that sometimes "sorry" is not enough. Sometimes you actually have to change.
- Claire London

Please forgive me... for the day we became friends
Please forgive me... for the minutes we got closer
Please forgive me.. for holding your hand
Please forgive me... for spending the whole day with you
Please forgive me... for the long drive
Please forgive me... for all the sms i sent you
Please forgive me... for hearing your voice on the phone
Please forgive me... for making promises for the next life
Please forgive me... for calling you my oxygen
Please forgive me... for kissing you infinitely
Please forgive me... for hugging you tightly
Please forgive me... for messing up your hair
Please forgive me... FOR LOVING YOU SO MUCH........... :(

You forgive me for liking you too much,
And I'll forgive you for not liking me enough.

You forgive me for missing you so,
And I'll forgive you for being so cold.

You forgive me for the loud racing of my heart,
And I'll forgive you for not hearing it.

You forgive me for playing your games,
And I'll forgive you for toying with my emotions.

You forgive me for finding you so attractive,
And I'll forgive you for not noticing.

You forgive me for raising you up so high,
And I'll forgive you for bringing me down so low.

You forgive me for wanting to be with you,
And I'll forgive you for avoiding me.

You forgive me for being so pathetic,
And I'll forgive you for taking advantage of it.

You forgive me for not being able to let go,
And I'll forgive you for never having latched on.

You forgive me for having hopes and dreams,
And I'll forgive you for crushing them.

Forgiveness brings inner peace.
Do we have a deal?
- melissa

Please, forgive me but we must separate. Maybe now you wont understand but time will pass, your soul will calm down and Im sure you will forgive me and understand me. Do not blame me for this. I never meant to hurt you. Im sorry.

I only want to make it go . So if I love you a little more than I should. Please forgive me, I know not what I do. Please forgive me, I can't stop loving you.

stop living in the past

If we open a quarrel between past and present, we shall find that we have lost the future.

~ Winston Churchill

We have one life; it soon will be past; what we do for God is all that will last.
~ Muhammad Ali

For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: 'If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?' And whenever the answer has been 'No' for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
~ Steve Jobs

Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future.
~ John F. Kennedy

I like the dreams of the future better than the history of the past.
~ Thomas Jefferson

"Learn from the past, look to the future, but live in the present."
~ Petra Nemcova

Live out of your imagination, not your history.
~ Stephen Covey

People who live in the past generally are afraid to compete in the present. I've got my faults, but living in the past is not one of them. There's no future in it.
~ Sparky Anderson

Forget the past - the future will give you plenty to worry about.
~ George Allen Sr

Let it GO !

Letting go is hard, but it's better to let go than to hold on to something that was never meant to be. So hold your head high, gorgeous, and stay strong because once you let go, better things are going to come along.

Relationships fail because of trust issues, commitment issues and communication issues.

Don't let past relationships ruin your future happiness, scars remind us of where we've been, not where we are going.

In a strong relationship, you should love your companion more than you need them.
~ Steve Maraboli

So you think you might have found that someone special that you've been waiting for. Well pay strict attention to their special relationship with their family, how special or important their family is to them starting with the time they spend with them, the minutes, the hours being the most important and the rest will fall in place. The best gift anyone could give their family, especially their kids is their time and if for no good reason its being spent elsewhere where family should be their specialty and first priority think where you'll be with that someone special. If family isn't rightfully first where do you think you will be.....move on and let them find who they deserve.
~ Danny Santagato

There are people who can walk away from you.And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming tosee you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.People leave you because they are not joined to you.And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.. You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something.. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye.. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to......


LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains .....

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth......

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you.

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge.....

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction... ..

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents

LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude.... ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......

LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to takeyou to a new level in Him.........

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a brokenrelationship. ....

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves.. ....

LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed ............

LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying 'take your hands off of it,' then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!

Dont Judge Me

No one has the right to judge us because no one really knows what we have been through. They may have heard about our stories, but they never did once felt what we felt in our hearts.

Don't judge me based on my accomplishments but rather my failures. You'd be surprised how imperfect I am.

Don't judge me by my past, I don't live there anymore.

If you judge me you don't have time to love me.

If you judge me by my past, don't be surprised when you become part of it.

are you really leaving me ?

Mr. Van Buren, your friends may be leaving you but my friends never leave me.
~ Andrew Jackson

I’ll reach for your hand in the cold of winter, I’ll reach for your hand in the heat of summer. But if my short life can’t reach the dawn of spring, I promise, in heaven, I’ll reach you with my wings.

If you love something let it go, and if it comes back - that doesn't mean a damn thing; it can just leave you again later. If you hide, I’ll seek for you. If you’re lost, I’ll search for you. If you leave, I’ll wait for you. If they try to take you away from me, I’ll fight for you. Cause I never want to lose someone I love.

When I say I love you, please believe it’s true. When I say forever, know I’ll never leave you. When I say goodbye, promise me you won’t cry. Cause the day I’ll be saying that would be the day I die.

You’re one of the people I never asked from God but still, He gave you to me. I asked Him why, He said, “Because he can fill your life like no one else can.”

there's a story behind everything

“But there's a story behind everything. How a picture got on a wall. How a scar got on your face. Sometimes the stories are simple, and sometimes they are hard and heartbreaking. But behind all your stories is always your mother's story, because hers is where yours begin.”
― Mitch Albom

Life is a long lesson in humility.
~ James M. Barrie

Life is much shorter than I imagined it to be.
~ Abraham Cahan

Life is never easy for those who dream.
~ Robert James Waller

Life is something to do when you can't get to sleep.
~ Fran Lebowitz

"Love is..."

"One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love."

"Sometimes love is stronger than a man's convictions." - Isaac Bashevis Singer

"Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness." - Oliver Wendell Holmes

"Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it." - Robert Mitchum

"Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside." - Margaret Walker

"Love has no awareness of merit or demerit; it has no scale... Love loves; this is its nature." - Howard Thurman

"Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end." - Anonymous

someone loves you

One thing about life that tells us it isn't always fair is how we ignore the ones who love us the most, yet we love the most the ones who just ignore us. Just because someone may not love you as you love him or her, doesn't mean that you should ignore all of those who love you. Doing so is a decision that all of us usually make either purposely or by default at one point in our lives, and is also an important lesson for us to learn from for the rest of our lives.

If someone doesn't treat as special as you deserve to be treated, and doesn't love you the way that you deserved to be loved, as a person who is uniquely and wonderfully made, chances are this person doesn't deserve to have you in their lives. Make time and effort for the people who still love you and for the people that will always love you, instead of devoting yourself to those who just ignore how beautiful of a person you really are.

be good listener

"The ear of the leader must ring with the voices of the people."
— Woodrow Wilson

"Many a man would rather you heard his story than granted his request."

— Phillip Stanhope
Earl of Chesterfield

"In some South Pacific cultures, a speaker holds a conch shell as a symbol of temporary position of authority. Leaders must understand who holds the conch—that is, who should be listened to and when."
— Max De Pree

"Let a fool hold his tongue and he will pass for a sage.
—Publilius Syrus
First Century BC, Maxim 914

"You have to be willing sometimes to listen to some remarkable bad opinions. Because if you say to someone, 'That's the silliest thing I've ever heard; get on out of here!'—then you'll never get anything out of that person again, and you might as well have a puppet on a string or a robot."
— John Bryan

"Effective questioning brings insight, which fuels curiosity, which cultivates wisdom."
— Chip Bell

"Silence is a source of great strength."
— Lao Tzu

"We should never pretend to know what we don't know, we should not feel ashamed to ask and learn from people below, and we should listen carefully to the views of the cadres at the lowest levels. Be a pupil before you become a teacher; learn from the cadres at the lower levels before you issue orders."
— Mao Tse-tung

"The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them."
— Ralph Nichols

A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while, he knows something.
Wilson Mizner

A good listener is not someone with nothing to say. A good listener is a good talker with a sore throat.
Katherine Whitehorn

A good listener is usually thinking about something else.
Kin Hubbard

No Tears

“Falling in love with someone isn't always going to be easy... Anger... tears... laughter.. It's when you want to be together despite it all. That's when you truly love another. I'm sure of it.”

“No man is worth your tears, but once you find one that is, he won't make you cry”

“Count your smiles instead of your tears; Count your courage instead of your fears.”

“The soul would have no rainbow had the eyes no tears.”